How to build trust in your first relationship | Check

Sakshi Chaturvedi
Published on: 1 Oct 2018 11:46 AM GMT
How to build trust in your first relationship | Check
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Lucknow: Proposing someone by saying 'I Love You' is not always enough to make a good relationship. Trusting each other more than oneself and caring for them wholeheartedly hold utmost importance in building a strong relationship.

If you have these things in your relationship then it surely is filled with loads of love.

You can start liking someone in a single day, you can become a die-hard fan of someone instantly but it takes time to truly, madly, deeply love someone.

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And first of all, if you want to run your relationship, the basic thing you need is to 'trust' your partner. If there is no trust than you can never be satisfied with your partner.

For building trust you must know your partner very well. So, here we bring you some points which you must follow to make your relationship strong:

QUALITY TIME

Spend quality time with your partner. Turn off the television, switch off the cellphones and listen to your partner. Try to understand what your partner is feeling.

BE TRUE YOU, NOT BEST YOU

Do not try to be best in front of your partner. Be true, show what you are in real. Open about your feelings, your thoughts and let them know how you think about the world.

Pretending to be 'perfect version of you all the time' is not sustainable. Remember, imperfection is the only perfection.

KEEP SOME BOUNDARIES

Many of us think that sharing passwords, pincodes with your partner is all you need to build trust. But, no darling, this can also be risky sometimes.

With time when you will start knowing each other very well, then you will not be required to share your passcodes.

TAKE STEPS SLOWLY

First relationship is always overwhelming and passionate but wait, take it slow. Give time to yourself and your partner.

When you will give time to your relationship, you will find trust building up naturally.

BE TRUSTWORTHY

If you expect your partner to always be true in front of yourself then give them the same in return. Trust is a 'two-way stream'. Show that you are reliable and you will get the same in return.

SHARE SOMETHING PERSONAL

Share something very close to your heart with your partner and check their reaction. Take a note on their response then you will be able to judge that you can trust your partner or not.

RESPECT THE BOUNDARIES

Always keep in mind, if you breach their trust, you can make a lot of damage to your relationship. So, it is must to respect your partner's boundaries. If you are feeling doubt on anything just be frank to ask them in front.

So, these were few tips to make a relationship work healthy and smoothly.

Sakshi Chaturvedi

Sakshi Chaturvedi

A journalist, presently working as a Sub-Editor at newstrack.com.

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